Hot take- Hating and complaining is healthy for authenticity and intimacy . In the new age era, there is so much emphasis on positivity and light. I sense a superficial texture at times, where it's challenging for me to feel the depths of the person before me. I noticed a pattern, that when I opened the doorway to begin complaining and hating things playfully yet honestly, gushing renewed life force showered the conversation.
followed by much laughter and beauty.
yes, some people need to learn how to use words in ways other than complaining and hating....
and some, need that permission slip to be a wild animal in their expression so their soul doesn't suffocate in an in an invisible box of superficial superior spirituality